Unbound
by Leslie Shalduha
She lets down her tight chignon
I say to her
“Your hair is glorious lately!”
She says
“I think I am releasing
what has held me all these years”
Of course, I realize
Our locks carry our truth
The knowing of this
Lands softly
Images flash
How they control
Us women
By legislating
How we hair
She says
“Let him brush it”
The evil stepmother
“It brings him joy”
The father
Never mind if it hurts
Sit still and let him
How they sever the
Braided strength of indigenous women
To display their supposed dominance
How we cover our hair
So as not to incite desire
That his weakness
Is our burden
How we leave our hair long
To catch a man
He who then says
“If you cut your hair,
I will leave you”
How a woman with a shorn head
Not hit upon by a jackass in a bar
‘Cause he thought her a
‘Women’s Study Professor’
As if this is an insult
Finally
True understanding dawns
She becomes unbound
As her thick copper mane
Flows free, light
As I became unbound
With the shearing of my own
They say
“How could you”
I say
“I feel free, the most like
myself I ever have”